To 'care'...(i will edit this further later, a bit rushed)

To “care” is to lay a heavy burden on your back too. Because what he or she experiences, is what you also experience. You share what he/she shares. His/her worries, are also your worries. Do you see what I mean? You would have to feel the same ‘pain’ the other one does. I don’t think anyone in this world is like that. Because we all think for ourselves, our own perspective!

I always think back about parents. Whatever happens to you, it’s like it’s happening to them (or at least they make it feel like it). When something bad happens to you, they felt it too. Basically, what affects you, also affects them. You do bad in school, it breaks them (altho, sometimes I have another explanation for that). I’m sure it is not 100% exactly, but it’s the closest example I could find.

- And to truly care, you would hafta ‘understand. “Understand”, in other words, being that person…is the only 100% way to understand.

It is almost like, “If a ‘friend’ does bad on a test, would you truly care if he did bad or not? You can feel bad…because it might make YOU feel bad.” (small example)
“If you did bad on a test you would freak out, would you freak out the same way for your ‘friend’?”

I think that is what care is. To feel what they feel, to almost be like one. That way, you ACTUALLY look out for each other. Because you both share the same need to. Wow, I gave some in depth thought to this.

If a decision had to be made whether you, or your “all-caring person” had to die. If YOU could pick…

But we are humans, we can NOT feel exactly the same pain that another feels, we…just can not.

--//If we share ‘burdens’ like that…with everyone in this world…we would die. We wouldn’t be able to take it.

And actually, if that were true, there would be “no fighting”, no pain to bear with to even START with maybe…because, we’d know how it’d feel like if we hurt one another. The problem in this world is, that we DON’T. If I punched you, does it hurt me??....no, it hurts YOU!. If it hurt me…would I keep punching…

It explains a bit why peace is so hard to find in this world...

maybe because you don't know pain, you're not the one experiencing it.

“do to others, as you would have them do to you”, that verse is always with me, and it just popped up right now.

--// thirdly, 3) an explanation could be: other people’s pain, makes you feel good, why? Why do we feel better, when we make other people feel worse? What is that about…

Lol.