Monday, June 14, 2010

Strengths...or...Weaknesses, Which should I pick?

"If you pay attention to your weaknesses, you'll just have stronger weaknesses. If you pay attention to your strengths, you'll have stronger strengths."

I learned that in Psych class today. LOL ofc I didn't actually learn it. I just keep getting reinforced, reminded, and come to a realization about it. All I can say is, a second opinion always has effect. But I keep telling myself this stuff, and all I do is type...

--// Opposites attract? so it's true. hmmm. It's suppose to be good to marry someone diff from yourself, or...let's say, things don't work out as well if you marry the "same" type of person as you, as time progresses farther. Another word was used actually...but yes.

Oh, and I'm a Golden Retriever

stands for people who are:
- soft...
- easily bossed, or basically don't like bossing other ppl around...
- don't want to start anything (such as fights, etc.)...
- Rather not confront ppl, even though there's something you'd like to express
- Just want to stay out of crap
- likes to get along with everyone (doesn't like making enemies)
- Doesn't like hurting people (that in turn, make enemies)
- Avoids things, avoids getting people mad, hurt, does not want ma fan,
- don't like change
- sensitive, self-conscious
- caring
- wants to be loved by everyone
- Wants appreciation
- indecisive
- Unable, incapable of expressing him/herself, emotions, mental, physical

So i should get with a NON-Golden Retriever...maybe a Lion? I donn't knoww how that would work out....

Lions are the ones that go: "What ever i say, goes. Screw you if you don't like it. If you come in between me and my goal, somebody gonna get the hurt real bad."

--//So today, ate dinner with "wo de mama"...at Chakos. Made up for it yesteday.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

a Dog? I'd rather be a person with christian faith...狗不同人..著名心理學家馬斯勞 (Maslow) 說,一個幸福與快樂的人生,離不開安全感、愛與尊重。這世界卻是最缺乏愛的世界,人與人之間,也常有隔膜。 但是..聖經彼得前書2:9-12對我們說.. 惟有你們是被揀選的族類,是有君尊的祭司,是聖潔的國度,是屬神的子民,要叫你們宣揚那召你們出黑暗、入奇妙光明者的美德。你們從前算不得子民,現在卻作了 神的子民;從前未曾蒙憐恤,現在卻蒙了憐恤。 親愛的弟兄啊,你們是客旅,是寄居的。我勸你們要禁戒肉體的私慾;這私慾是與靈魂爭戰的。你們在外邦人中,應當品行端正,叫那些毀謗你們是作惡的,因看見你們的好行為,便在鑒察的日子(註:“鑒察”或作“眷顧”)歸榮耀給 神。....Wah..Wow..!蒙揀選,有安全感,被愛,被尊重....wow!!!

Conan You said...

Dad?

Conan You said...

Or mom?