But now I get/understand the other side of it. People who normally/usually aren't around people that much, don't feel the need to be around people. They don't need to have friends to be with...in order to "survive". I sorta see it now.
I used to think without another soul to be with, it was impossible to survive. It was a necessity. And it some ways...it is. But that necessity can die away sort of, if you realize you don't need it anymore. That you have other things, to keep you on your feet (by that, I mean stuff to do, not literal survival).
That is opposed to people who do normally "chill" with friends. When it's a consistent thing, you will miss, crave to be with 'people' when you haven't been for only a day (short time). It's hard to stand a day without being with those people. Guess what I'm saying, is pretty obvious.
But people without friends, they wouldn't even notice it. It was never introduced to them, they can't miss something, they never had. They don't know this "wonderful" thing that their missing out on (if it's wonderful at all).
But now I know, when you're alone a lot...you'll be used to being alone. You no longer cling on to "needing" other people to make you feel not alone. With this said, that you have other stuff that keeps you preoccupied ofc.
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