[ мдĸї мдĸї ] says:
*whats wrong conan
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*nothinnn relaly L.M.
*I've been alrite
*oh just right now
*i got in an argument
[ Leo ] says:
*explain Conan Yu is unhappy, there is no better word
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but nothin muchh
*not relali what im thinkin about now
*right now, I'm just reflecting
[ Leo ] says:
*w parents?
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and thinking
[ Leo ] says:
*i see
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*ohh wow, u good
*u prettty good
*i guess u can just tell
*im too easy lol
*but that's not the big deal
*but i was unhappy cuse of that
*but right now, I'm jsut thinking aboiut...stuff
[ Leo ] says:
*naw haha i dont see you getting upset with anyone else haha
*your too nice
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*u no...the stuff...I always think about
*being the Conan I am
[ Leo ] says:
*so only other thing would be parents i gues shaha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*haha wows
*good err analyiss
[ Leo ] says:
*LOL nothing wrong with reflecting
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*well, right now, I'm just thinking thoughts
[ Leo ] says:
*i do it all the time :P
*dont go too deep into it lol
*it gets dangerous
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeaa i knowww
*it is SO true
*looks like u've got experience of ur own
*thinking, can do a lot
[ Leo ] says:
*:] who doesnt buddy
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*many thingss
*butt yeaa, it looks like u've been in my situation before
*it's like probably, u've gone thro what i've gone thro
[ Leo ] says:
*yea, but jsut use reflecting as a tool you know to motivate future
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*unh hhuhh
[ Leo ] says:
*not to punish past
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*like , reflecting/thinking
*gets me self-conscious
*wow, that's a goof quote
*I mean
*good "say"
*you put it in such good words
*"motivate the future, not punish the past"
[ Leo ] says:
*haha hmmmmmmm
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*punish the past, that's EXACTLY what i do
[ Leo ] says:
*self concious
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and i gotta stoppp
*woww, i like those words
[ Leo ] says:
*i know, i do the same
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*LOL
*that u use
[ Leo ] says:
*thats why i feel you haha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*like, ur like a "me" ,but more experienced
[ Leo ] says:
*but yo, calm down and realize you know
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*cuse ur older, and u've gone thro it
[ Leo ] says:
*that you have alot of potential... im so jealous of anuyone who can play piano as well as you haha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*I always get pretty 'happy/excited"? can't find better words
*when ppl understand the same thing i do
*even better, is when ppl have gone thro it
*like it's the best
[ Leo ] says:
*LOL
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*my frustration usua;lly comes from, people who don't understand what the heck
*or where the heck im coming from
*but yeaa, it's pretty cool ,there are ppl that think "alike" like me
*ya know
*lolss
[ Leo ] says:
*that because life isnt fair and thing you have to go through not everyone else has
*in saying that, you also dont have to go through many tihngs other people have gone through so it's normal not everonye understands everyone else
*whats bothering you
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*just "me"
*I'm botheriing me
*as always
[ Leo ] says:
*LOL thats a borad topic
*why
*dont
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*just who i am
*LOL
[ Leo ] says:
*who are yo
*u
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*um becausee ok, just NOW, I'll tell u what im thinking
[ Leo ] says:
*ok
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*I'm thinking about, how when people are 'encouraging', it's so nice
*everybody wants that
*When you say good words, that lift people up, sorta thing
*But I don't do that
*I don't encourage ppl
*becausee I don't SAY things, that i DON't meann
*And very often, i don't have a lot of genuine encouragement usually!
*so, i was just thinking that
[ Leo ] says:
*hmmm thats fine.
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and most of the encouragement i give, is probably "fake"
*like, not from the bottom of my heart
[ Leo ] says:
*i see
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*so, I hate that
*I hate when i do that
*becausee
*it's just so hypocrite
*inside
[ Leo ] says:
*then stop. if youre done someingthing you dont like
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*I hate that kinda thing
[ Leo ] says:
*stop
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yea, so i don't do it
*or would like not to do it
*but when i don't
*everyone's gonna be like "you're such a downer"
*or u never have anything encouraging to say
[ Leo ] says:
*man. if youre getting upset over things such as these then what you need to do it write it what you dont like, then write what you can do to fix it
*for example
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*like, im also scared of people judging
*that's my OTHER side/part of me
*umm i also would LOve encouragement
*if i COULD that is
*GENuinely
*if i could genuinely say something encouarging then i wouldd
*but there AREN"t many!
*coming from me
*ok, example:
*I'll wait
[ Leo ] says:
*you dont like the fact that you're not encouraging others from bottom of your heart, then theres 2 things you can do
*wait
*before i get carried away
*what type of encouragement
*give me an example
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*So, eg. in softball, "Good job batter"?
*when i don't even mean it
*which, could be kinda bad
[ Leo ] says:
*why dont you mean it
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but i only feel like saying it, cuse it would be a jerk not to
*well, it's not from the total bottom of my heart
*I feel if i say it, it's because i want people to see that i say it
*in the end
*it's not becaues i actually mean it
*so, i woiuld rather not say it
*and i feel horrible when i do
*i wanna say things cuse I REALLY wanna
*not any other motive i guess
*so basically, I do things for the likes of other ppl
[ Leo ] says:
*interesting
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*i do things not for...doing it, or what the action "shjould" imply
[ Leo ] says:
*that makes sense. then thr problem is not about the encouragement
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but for other reasons
*such as, you know, you just gOtta do it
[ Leo ] says:
*when you relaly hone down the problem, its not that your giving false encouragements, its that youre self consious
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*because it wouldn't even be CALLEd an encouragement
*if it's not relaly from the bottom of your heart
*it's called an act, or a show
[ Leo ] says:
*nonono
*when you say good job batter
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yea yeaaaaa
*likee u no whatt
[ Leo ] says:
*even when the batter sucked
*it means that you are trying to encourage and give confidence to the batter regardless of his performance
*there really no coming from the heart i tihnk with this
*yea, people mess up sometimes and what happens is that you give encouragement to make him feel better?
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*most people just do "what im doing"
*without noticing it
[ Leo ] says:
*your completely twisting this
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*the only difference about me, is, i notice it
*ok, sorry, i really ur msgs now
[ Leo ] says:
*LOL
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*because this whole time i was just thinking to myself trying to gather all my thots and then type it out
*ok, im read to listen lol
[ Leo ] says:
*i think your beign too hard on yourslef haha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*okk...what i mean is...I believe...that everybody has this "motive" behind them
*but it's just whether it's 'conscious' or 'unconscious' to them
*for me, it's conscoius
*ok, u might be confused now
[ Leo ] says:
*nope
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*because, anybody would be
[ Leo ] says:
*i understand
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*even if u understand me
*like, cuse i don't do a good job of communicating, lol i know already
[ Leo ] says:
*your saying that yours is to impress people and you tihnk your being fake
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeaaaa somehatt
*or basically, yea it is
*it is correct
*but yea, when ppl say all that nice stuff, the encouragement and all that
*i guess they don't really think about it like that
*they do it, because it's...pretty natural i guess
*and it doesn't really occur to them that they're being "fake"
*like i make it out like
*or I COULD be the one that is diff, and weird
*but yea, i see it differently
*yea, altho it's all natural to them
[ Leo ] says:
*OK HOLD ON
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*unconsciously, we all have a motive...the real reason we doin it for
*you know, everybody wants love
[ Leo ] says:
*wait wait wait
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*or everybody wants be loved
*and really, we only love others...so they could love us back
*like, that is almost a fact
*because, we humans
*we don't love unconditionally. like God
*but every action we do...has a pur;pose
*and the purpose usually leads to a benefit for us...ultimately...
*agreedd?
*ok, u can talk now =)
[ Leo ] says:
*haha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*LOL
[ Leo ] says:
*you should go into philsophy
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*reallyy...
*no it's jus common observation
*loll
*it's just overtime, u realize
*u see these things, that's it
*and u no urself
*that is the best thing to observe, or judge?
*like, u can only know urself best
*and what we all are, are HUMAn
[ Leo ] says:
*thats actaully someones idea where he tihnks there is a universaal selfishness which is very interesting
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*so, we can'tbe that far off
*no wut i mean
*lol "someone's"?
*hahaha
*yeaa, i bet someone wrote aobut it before
[ Leo ] says:
*i forgot his name
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*well, i think it's true
[ Leo ] says:
*its published thoguh
*you shoulld read on it
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*i don't really, think that....MAYBE it's possiblee
*i dunno i dunno
*but as flawed human beings that God created
[ Leo ] says:
*conan, what is it that you want
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*we just don't have rela love...amongst us
*lol what is "What"?
[ Leo ] says:
*kk
*i tihnk theres a difference between how you see the encouragement issue and how others do
*you so worried about what people think about you that thats why you encourage others such as the good job batter
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yea, but u see, what it is, is...It doesn't matter if the batter sucks or not
[ Leo ] says:
*but theres people who really dont care about how other seems them and when they say good job batter, its not because they care about what the people next to them tihnks but because they ARE actaully tihnking about the batter
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*like, EVEN...say, if he's good
[ Leo ] says:
*NO
*it doesnt
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*I could say it unwillingly
*or just basically, i don't "feel" like saying it
*just the "feel"'s not there
*LOL
*maybee, I'm too lazy??
*could be
*but whatever it is, I just know im not motivated to actually do that
[ Leo ] says:
*no one says you HAVE to encourage the batter
*if you dont want to then dont
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*And I'm actually forcing myself if I say it
[ Leo ] says:
*be firm with your actions
*I dont wanna say it so im not goign to
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeaaa, this is major overkill
*overthink
[ Leo ] says:
*why
*conan, at the end of the ady
**day
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*this is just one of the episodes/topics/things
*we can uncover more
*LOl
*that I mind/brain gets wack, or crazy over about
*weird stupid, sjdakl stuff
[ Leo ] says:
*if your encouraging other for any other reason then y0uo wanting to encourage them then you really shouldnt
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yes, at the end of the day...
*Yes, I agree
[ Leo ] says:
*thats ebcause you are over thinking things
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*that's why i do not like doing it
[ Leo ] says:
*then dont conan
*such an easy solution
*dont
*why do you say it in the end
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeaa i guess...THAT"s what I'll doo.......
*loll
*i guess what i really want, is to clarify/explain myself to ppl? who question about it
*like i feel like I'm the person who talks to no one
*who has nothing "good" to say ever
[ Leo ] says:
*who questioning about it
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and i want to justifiy that...maybe that's what
[ Leo ] says:
*and waht is "it"
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*that...It's because Of THISSSS
*lollll
*that's my reasonnn
[ Leo ] says:
*no one would queston why you encouraged a batter
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*haha, do u get that tho?
[ Leo ] says:
*even if they do, all you have to say is becuase i wanted to
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*no, if i do NOT encourage
*If i DO encourage then it's fine with other ppl, but it wouldn't be fine with myself
[ Leo ] says:
*nothings gonna happen if you dont
*if you want
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*If i DON't encourage, it would not be fine with others, but what i would preferbly do...since i don't mean it wholehearted
*so i won't say
[ Leo ] says:
*ill go to a game with you and jsut sit around and not encourage anyone. im confident no one will make me say anything
*still, i tihnk you are over thinking other's people reaction to you.
*if i do end up saying good job to anyone, its because i genuinly actaully think they did a good job
*not because i want others to see me praising others
*thats the key difference i think between you and me at this moment.
*i fully understand what you mean
*the tihng with what youre saying is that you're so ocncerned about what people tihnk about you that when you say something, you've lost the meaning of what youre saying becuase youre thinking of other stuff other that what youre saying
*when you say something, you shouldnt be tihnking of "oh, what would she think about me if i say this"
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*YESS
[ Leo ] says:
*when you say good job bater, you should be genuinly in your mind be thinking, yes, that batter did a good job. I'll praise him for it.
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*ALMOST
*preciseLY!
[ Leo ] says:
*you know?
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*jsut almostt
*you are like....
*99.9%
*correctt
[ Leo ] says:
*w2heres the .% then
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*altho i don't relaly know where the 0.01% is
*but cuse i never give 100%
[ Leo ] says:
*if you cant think of a reason im wrong then im right haha
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*nothing's ever perfectly...done, whatever it iss
*even i dunnoo
[ Leo ] says:
*i guess
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but yeaa it's uncertainity
[ Leo ] says:
*what do you see wrong with it
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*nothing is wrong
*it's just
*arghh can't explain behind that
*but yea, ur basically right
[ Leo ] says:
*what i like to do is, when i tihnksoemthing is right, i say its 100% right until someone proves me wrong
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*ohhhh
*ic, is that how it is
[ Leo ] says:
*that way you'll be more confident in yourself
*not haveing to worry about that .1 which is mathmatically negilgable
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*mmm yeaa
*ok, i know where the 0.01% is
*to be exact, overthinking about how I'm encouraging to be praised is just ONE of the reasons
*one of the big reason
[ Leo ] says:
*explain
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*other times, I'm just lazy...
*and im just REALLY not in the mood to encourage, and actually mean it
*BUT, i do it anyways
*it's SO small...this thing
[ Leo ] says:
*ok see heres the thing. thats already the problem
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but it;s there
[ Leo ] says:
*I couldnt care less if the person i praise wont prise me back
*for example, a person you dont get along with (mutual hate) does well at batter
*well enough that i think he deserves my clap or a praise then ill give it to him.
*chances are he wont even accept my praise or will shrugg it off
*i dont care, i think he did well so I'mm show it through clapping or praise
*so its not to get praise back you see?
*its because I actuially think he did well.
*youre still thinking of other things
*Concept of the night: when you praise someone, you should be actaully thinking about his performance and not about what comes after whether it be recieving praise back or others thinking of you being a party pooper
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*hmmm i like your concept
*sooo positive
*andd actually no, not really
[ Leo ] says:
*w/e man. the concept of praise is that you express you awe or apprieciaion in what you see
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but very..."jik jeep"
[ Leo ] says:
*NOT to get favours back
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*bad canto
[ Leo ] says:
*thats how YOU should be taking life too
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*umm but i like how you just "say what you want"
*that's the best
*say what your inner, whole heart feels almost
*i wish i could just do that
*that would be the best life ever
*i would be the best "me" if there's such thing
*Ever
[ Leo ] says:
*to help you getting over being slef conciosu you should try it too
*why not
*i think you are self concious because theres a certain thing that is casueing it
*what are you not ocnfident of
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*I...right now....
*it's more of, the many things I've realized, and see, and...yeaa
*I see...that it is possible to doubt
*so i doubt
*I see...it is possible to fail
*so I fail
*I see....there is a possibility that people may see me this way
*so I act differently
*aka, I als fail
[ Leo ] says:
*give me example of each
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*because my greatest goal/joy is relaly to be myself
*ok, so even piano...ok i'll use piano example
*umm u can say I'm not too bad at the piano right...
*not in a boasting way but...yea
*I can suddenly...forget how to play the piano
*if i just simple tell myself...that there is 'possibility' that i can;t
*that "cant" exists
*possiblity = existence
*and also, THE potential possibility tends to take over
*just cuse...it's "possible"
*darnn, im starting to sound confusing now, I was doing ok before
*and so, when I clearly CAN play the piano...I CAN't play the piano...
*Get it?
[ Leo ] says:
*well there is the fact that attitude has a great deal with performance. people who do well usually dont do well tihnking how they would fail but how nice it would be to passs. of coursfe, failing needs to have back up plans but that not the main focus. main focus is to succeed
*what your doing is letting yourself fail because you know tyhere is the posssibility to fail
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*EXACLLY what I long for
*like, i LONG for it
*I want it
*I WANT that ability!
[ Leo ] says:
*?
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*i would kill
[ Leo ] says:
*no
*dont kill
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*well, no i wouldn't
[ Leo ] says:
*what you need ot do
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*loll
*but what i want
[ Leo ] says:
*it stop being scared of life
**is
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*is that ability, to "NOT think about your "fall", ur "doubt""
[ Leo ] says:
*you so scared of failing that its stoping you from succeeding
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but instead think of ur success
[ Leo ] says:
*no
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and that only that's possible
[ Leo ] says:
*everyone doubt i ithnk
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*there is no otherr option
*or maybe there s
*but not one of failing
[ Leo ] says:
*no failing is always a possibility
*almsot ALWAYS
*thats why there a fail blog, because its hilarious when people do
*But still, what you doing is looking down
*if you look at all the successful people
*they look up at when can be if the succeed
*not what will be if they fail
*you need to let yourself get excited about suceeding more then being ashamed when you fail
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*well OBViously failing's a posiility
*yea yeaaa
[ Leo ] says:
*when you really excited about succeeding, you wont want to tihnk about failing and thats what youll end up doing theoretically, succeeding
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*it's IF u aLREAdy think you can fail
*thenn really, u most likely will fail
*but EVERybody failss
*in their lives some time
[ Leo ] says:
*yea
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*but the important thing is, don't let it be a possibility in the beginning
[ Leo ] says:
*failing is a part of life, you get back up stronger. imagine if noone failed at anything in life
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*the result
*regardless
[ Leo ] says:
*then success wont mean much
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*what happens happens
*this world obiv isn't perfect
*but u can start off good...by not having 'fail' as existent
[ Leo ] says:
*sorry haha, i dont tihnk our world runs like that
*you need to understand failing is a part of life.
*when you fail you learn more from it then if you succeed right from the start
*what you're talking baout it a fool proof one way path to success
*if there really was such a path, then there wouldnt be hobos
*by focusing so hard on failing, what if you actaully do succeed.
*you wouldnt know waht to do next cuz you didnt itnhk about it. all you thought about was when you failed
*therefore you should stop thinking baout failing but instead about winning.
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yessss man
*yes
[ Leo ] says:
*stop aggreeing with me unless you actaully do it lol :]
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*and u see, if u aim for success, u might get "below sucess"
*that's why kinda the saying "Aim high"
*u probably won't even get it
[ Leo ] says:
*LOL see
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*But if u aim 'fail'
*ur goina fail anyways
[ Leo ] says:
*there you go again
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*lol
[ Leo ] says:
**u probably won't even get it*
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*heyyy but, just spitting out thoughts on my mind
[ Leo ] says:
*what if you do get it
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*can't help itt
*but im listening
*then ok, I will believe i DO get it
*but reality is...i won't LOLL
*Okokokok i 'll stop thinking that
*i WILL get it ok
*i WILLL
*that's finall
*I WILL reach it
*i WILL get success Ol
*"lol"
[ Leo ] says:
*conan, it takes a long time to rewire yourself
*thats why you need freinds that push you on
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*i believe i do
*and here u are
*helping me
[ Leo ] says:
*not friends that encourage you because they tihnk youlll encourage them back, but you know
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*i appreicate, did i say that yet?
[ Leo ] says:
*friend that pushes you because they are actaully trying to help you
*no ones perfect and you jsut have to life with that, but the point is to maximize what you have in life
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeaaa, and u no what, i believe there is a tendency that....
Ppl who understand each other tend to help those ppl...who they understand
[ Leo ] says:
*thats what i ithnk
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*well, htat's kinda obvious
*butt i think that's true
*like, those who understand me, and vice versa, i kinda talk to them so muchh moree
*but that's another obvi
[ Leo ] says:
*haha
*im glad we agree
† Conan Yu - Yo, Give me your # if you want...yea, you says:
*yeap, u no what, I'm gonna save this convo...
*and keep it as memory LOL
*it is one GREAt convo
1 comment:
cool convo, but major problem is that you're trying to please everyone including yourself. you run into trouble if what you believe and what everyone else believes contradict each other. meaning that you should
a) stop trying to please everyone because that's impossible or
b)take care of yourself first before anyone else or
c) don't take what you say so personally, words don't carry weight. people generally don't remember what you say to them, only what you did for them.
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