Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Lessons...

I really want to take lessons on how to talk to people some day...

I've realized I've got an over-analyzing, over-sensitive brain, and I think I'd rather be simple-minded to an extent that I'm not able to think about these things...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

to stop overanalyzing, stop worrying about what you say. just let it all out. if you offend someone,simply apologize.

Conan You said...

yo, how do you stop worrying? Seems pretty simple to answer, "just don't."; but the problem is these things aren't as easy, like they are said.

Well, that's my struggle precisely. Every solution I find to solve a problem, comes with another question always. Know what I mean?

Again, like i said before, just cuse i know the problem, does not necessarily mean i can solve it.

My problem seems very repetitive inside my brain/head....if you even consider this a problem..

Yo, but even I think I'm getting better...time does kinda solve things...cuse of experiences.

Anonymous said...

Face the problem by going to your uncomfortable zone. Try volunteering with complete strangers.

I had the exact same problem that you had. I then tried to talk to people as often as I could, volunteered with new people as well. At first, it's a little awkward because you over analyze, but then you see patterns of the way people act to how you speak to them.

if the reaction is positive, then you're doing the right thing. if the reaction is negative, then get rid of it.