Girls on the other hand...needa turn guys down (cuse guys ask the girl out. Right?)
With that assumption in place..
Must be a lotta pressure and emotionss involved in that.
At least, I can ask a girl if i want to. But a girl...would hafta wait for that guy to ask her...the right guy...
At least, males can CONTROL who gets hurt and who doesn't (haha, I'm a little horrible). But the girls don't (they don't get to chose who they break, and who breaks their heart) anyways,
I guess there was never a rule that girls couldn't ask guys out. But you know, it doesn't happen.
--//How this thought came into play:
If a girl asked me out, and she was non-christian...I wouldn't know how to reject her. Well, reject is...kinda a strong word, I mean I'd still wanna be really great friends and establish a relationship with her, but just...not THAT kind of relationship. I would just be hard to bring myself to say "Sorry, you're not christian...", not that that is what has to be said exactly, but that would be the reason...
At least, I'm not at that stage, where my faith is unwavering, unfaltering, and unshaken...I believe it is very hard to attain that type of faith.
So being a guy is pretty great, I won't even BE asked out (or maybe me, Conan Yu, would never be asked out, it's ok anyways..). Hence, no turning down. I really hate the feeling of being the one to make a decision to turn people down. Ya, that's me.
2 comments:
Heyy Conan,
How are you?
I would like to mention that "guys ask girls out" NOT "girls as guys out". In the Bible, God tells us that the men are the "head" of the relationship. This means that they should have the initiative to ask the girl out. It really shows leadership and responsibility. This also shows that the man is ready to lead the "family" -knowing that godly dating/relationships only leads to marriage- to growing in Christ and discipleship with Him.
...but regardless, Rejoice and Praise God that He has made you a man. :)
Continue to strive for God and become a godly man.
Hey, I've been good!
Andd yea "guys ask girls out"...did I write it wrong, cuse that's what I wrote I believe loll...
That's why I'm saying being a guy is slightly advantageous since WE get to chose to ask the girl out, and the girls hafta wait for the guy to ask her out. haha.
But good reminder...recently I just learned bout the role of man and role of women that God created us to be. How wives should submit to husbands, but how husbands have such a GREAT responsibility too to lead the wife being the head of the house, yea. Good stuff.
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