I hate you...'misunderstanding'. I never mean what i say...not because of 'carelessness" or "casual talk" i don't even know what you call it, basically, you don't really care about the words you say anyways.
But for me, I always end up saying something, that im not trying to say. It's like...totally different, from what i meant. And people don't ask what i meant, because they got the message alright...the WRONG one that is...NOT the message i was tryina give at all! I mean, that's not what i want, why the heck would i want that?!
e.g. Comment made: ( changed my mind, won't be putting it )
meaning: ...
intentions v.s. appearance, words v.s. meaning/intentions
I also send ppl weird signals apparently, ppl think im pissed...when im not. Or that i don't really like something...when i really do.
I continue to pray for confidence...and an ability to 'speak'.
--//If you think a comment "can" be, or is "capable" of being offenseive...then it's an offensive comment. It's just that...usually, you just somehow sugar coat it, to make it less offensive. You just don't want to say it like that, so the other person will hate you. But in the end, the ultimate idea, that point you made...was offensive no matter what. There are ways to twist/make things Less offensive, or unoffensive. But it's not the other way around. Just don't ever think that, you are NOT making an offensive comment, cuse you are. You're just making it less strong, to lessen the impact. This world is full of "offense"... [I really don't know what the point of this paragraph is)
keep in mind, im not even sure if "offensive" is the right word, i just realized how many times i used it. Maybe "critical/critizicing" is better?
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